How can my prayer life improve?

Before I seek to provide any help let me first confess that I’m not coming from a position of great victory here. I’ve spent much of my adult life praying that my prayer life would improve (which, of course, is an outstanding first step). I’ve not arrived but God has blessed me, principally through the precious gift of my wife. Here are five changes I’ve noticed in my prayer life in the five years we’ve been married that have been a help.

1. Reading the Bible through yearly is a great help to prayer. This habit begins with hearing God in His Word. When He is speaking, or rather, when we are listening, we are more attuned to Him, more open to speaking with Him, guarded against moving through our days without giving Him much of a thought. For much of my adult life my work kept me regularly in God’s Word. While I’m grateful for that, it’s not the same thing as opening God’s Word morning and evening.
2. Praying morning and evening with my wife has been a great help to prayer. First, I get to be right beside her as she prays. Because my heart is drawn to hers, and hers to mine, we draw each other to His. If you have a spouse I can think of few things more important not only to your prayer life but your Christian walk and your marriage than that the two of you pray together daily.
3. Pray throughout the day. That is, we do not need to choose between extended times of committed prayer and constant times of brief prayers. The practice of moment by moment walking with Him is good in itself but also powerful for improving our intimacy when we devote more time. Think of it this way. If you write lengthy hand-written letters to a dear friend that doesn’t mean you don’t want to send quick texts. And vice-versa. How much more so with the living God?
4. Pray for others. When our attention and concern is directed toward the well-being of others are heart is more in tune with our Lord. This, of course, includes your enemies. Jesus, immediately before and during His passion prayed for His disciples, assured the care of His mother and prayed for those who were torturing Him. Another blessing of praying widely, for many people and their needs is you get to hear more and more reports of God’s gracious responses.
5. Believe what the Bible tells us. We can all talk about the doctrine of God’s imminence, speak to His love, affirm the doctrine of adoption. All of which comes well short of remembering that He is our Father who loves us with a perfect, infinite, immutable, by name love. I often pray, “Lord, I’m not asking You to give me more. I’m asking You to help me better see all that You’ve already given me.” Give thanks. As I type it is snowing outside, yet another occasion to thank God, for both the snow and the warmth He keeps us in in the home He has given us.

We do not bootstrap our way to a better prayer life. The solution isn’t more effort on my part, but more gratitude for all He has already done. I’m praying He will continue to help me grow in my prayer life, and praying He would do that same for you. Will you join me?

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Moving Lips

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For Whom Big Ben Tolls

If you know much of anything about my father you know he loves the Pittsburgh Steelers. I don’t believe his entrance into glory changed that. In heaven, after all, when we are glorified we are even more us than we are now. What you may not know about him is that he almost enjoyed the offseason as much as the season. He was a draftnik before Mel Kiper needed his first haircut. He studied scouting reports, watched film. In fact, probably the one question he asked me more than any other was this, “What three positions would you draft in the first three rounds?”

He treated the draft itself like it was the Super Bowl. If he believed it went well for the Steelers he was elated. Otherwise it was another soul crushing loss. Over the years there were drafts he was excited about that turned out to be bad ones, others he was upset about that turned out to be good ones. And others where his early assessment proved accurate. One draft, however, stands out above all others in my memory. (No, those of you in the know, I don’t remember his reaction to the Steeler’s legendary, greatest ever draft of 1974. I was 8.) It was when the Steelers drafted Big Ben Roethlisberger. He was over the moon.

Over many of the ensuing years we watched Ben together more times than I can remember. There were moments of disappointment when my father would quietly scold him, “Oh Ben,” he’d say, as if Ben were a pet that had just soiled the carpet- disappointment muted by love and appreciation.

My father entered His reward four years ago. Big Ben is hanging up his cleats after 18 seasons. In zero of those seasons did the Steelers have a losing record. In 11 of those seasons he led us into the playoffs. In three he lead us to the Super Bowl. In two he hoisted the Lombardi trophy. In 18 he gave fans like me and my father reasons to hope, to believe, to rejoice. Together my father and I watched Ben become big, to mature, to grow into his cleats. We watched him weather storms, extend plays, sling the rock, weep, comfort, inspire, serve. We watched him stand tall when surrounded by his enemies, and get back up when they knocked him down. Spanning the Brett Favre/Peyton Manning/Aaron Rodgers/Tom Brady eras Ben earned one record that surpassed them all- he was sacked more than any quarterback in NFL history.

I am grateful for what Big Ben did for my team and my hometown. I’m even more grateful for what he did for my great hero, another great quarterback, my father. I’m most grateful for how Ben, young enough to be my much, much younger brother, made me feel like a little boy again, sitting with my dad, watching the Steelers. Were it any other team I’d be in sackcloth thinking of the typical dark years that tend to follow after the retirement of a franchise quarterback, but the Steelers fielded amazing teams in the interregnum between Bradshaw and Ben. I’m confident they’ll do it again. Still, I look forward to the day when Ben, my dad and I get to talk. “Remember when…”

God blessed you Ben with skill and a determination to succeed. God blessed me with a father who loved you and loved me. God blessed all three of us with His Son, our elder Brother. May He continue to bless you and the Pittsburgh Steelers.

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Forever Friend, Chad Krafzig; Loyal Love

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The Year of Our Lord

The world is half full of glass half-empty thinkers, and I am one of them. Puddleglum is my patron saint. And nothing exposes the vast expanse of emptiness in the top half of the glass like listening to the evening news. Every year we seem to have a parade of ground-breaking Supreme Court decisions, all about culturally public affirmations of the lordship of Christ. More than fifty years ago the Supreme Court ruled that prayer to the Almighty would no longer be sanctioned in the state’s schools. To this day, however, we still don’t know if prayers are permitted prior to football games, or at graduations. We dicker over crosses on public lands, over the Ten Commandments in courthouses, and during the “Winter Holidays,” over whether there is any room in the inn for Christmas crèches.
We half-empty folks, perhaps rightly, bemoan that we not only often lose these cases, but the hard fact that we have them at all. Time was that while we did not have an established church in America as such, we all understood where we came from. There is no question that corporately speaking, we are growing more forgetful. We are, as a culture, eager to keep Christianity on the reservation, somewhere safe inside our hearts and minds where no one will notice. We are as militant in our secularism as al Qaeda is in their Islam.

Half-full people, on the other hand, are quick to point out that the federal government still finances the office of the congressional chaplain. No one seems to mind. Our coinage, though on the inside is still junk metals, nevertheless carries with it “In God We Trust.” We may be down in the late innings, but the game isn’t over yet.

All of these tokens, cultural symbols of what matters, matter. While what we seek is absolute submission from the heart of all men everywhere, we have slipped into a cultural gnosticism if we believe there is nothing to be gained by a symbolic acknowledgement of the lordship of Christ. Civil religion will save no one, but then, neither will civil secularism. But we have better news. It is true enough that in certain academic circles we still have archaic cultural warriors who want us to begin using CE and BCE as a measurement of time, these abbreviations meaning “Common Era” and “Before the Common Era.” It is likewise true enough that while BC is clear enough (Before Christ) we have been dumbed down such that we can’t handle the simple Latin of Anno Domini, in the year of our Lord. But none of these cultural drifts can undo the fact that we (by “we” I don’t simply mean “Christians” but all citizens of the broader west, even the bce and ce crowd) measure time, one of the most elemental of elements, by the birth of Jesus Christ.

In a little town of Bethlehem, backwater village in a backwater vassal state of the Roman empire, in a veritable stable, a baby was born. There was no ticker tape parade. There was no three-inch headline in the local paper. But that birth henceforth marked the very hinge of time. Everything that happened before this event would be marked as happening before this event. But better still, everything that happened after this event happened not just in time marked by our Lord, but in time belonging to our Lord. This is His year, as every year is.

This doesn’t mean, of course, that revival is just around the corner. It doesn’t mean that we are well on our way to victory in the culture wars. It means, however, that this little babe is now Lord over all things, that He will bring in each one that has been given to Him and that He is about the business of bringing all His enemies into submission. That we live in 2022 AD reminds us, whether or not we hear that reminder, that our God reigns.

While it is good and appropriate that we should mourn at the naked public square, while it is a sure sign of a sad decline that those in positions of political power will not kiss the Son, we would do better to remember that even this is the fruit of the reality of His reign. The hearts of all kings are in His hand. This babe, born king of the Jews, is likewise king of these United States, of Canada, England, East Timor, Iraq, Red China. He does not stand outside the United Nations knocking, but is already Lord over all.

In the coming year, we would do well to watch our language. We who are His servants often, with well-intentioned zeal, determine to grow the kingdom of God, to expand its borders. But we, even empowered by the Holy Spirit, can do nothing of the kind. We cannot grow the kingdom, expand the borders where Christ reigns, for already He reigns everywhere. All authority, in heaven and on earth, has been given to Him. Our calling isn’t to make His kingdom bigger. Our calling is to make His kingdom clearer, to make manifest, visible, tangible, the already existing but shrouded reality that Jesus Christ is now and ever more shall be Lord. It is a glorious calling, and these are glorious times, for this is the year of our Lord.

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Ask RC- Is it a sin to read fantasy?

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How did you know that you wanted to be a writer?

My ideological awakenings did not happen in the order most would suspect. I was well taught the Reformed faith in my catechism class in junior high school, working through GI Williamson’s Shorter Catechism for Study Groups. Though I had, of course, come from a Reformed family, and been raised in the Reformed church, that was when it all clicked for me. But before Reformed theology became a passion I was introduced to free market economics. Just as Reformed theology asked us to embrace a few basic principles, and then to work out the implications of those principles with relentless zeal, so with free market economics there was a certain elegance and internal coherence that just made me fall in love.

I was in high school when Reformed theology moved from a matter of conviction to a cause for me. My father came and taught on the sovereignty of God at the school I attended (Wichita Collegiate School in Kansas) and then left town. I was left to defend him and it, and thus Reformed theology brought out the zealot in me. It was at that time, early in high school when I began to read substantive theology and economics on my own, apart from school assignments. I remember reading A Christian Manifesto on the flight home after hearing Francis Schaeffer speak at the first Congress on the Bible.

My desire to be a writer, however, was driven more by novelists than ideological salesmen. It was reading Pat Conroy, John Knowles, William Golding and Anthony Burgess that made me believe that there was a power in words beyond merely the power to inform. It was reading not my father’s most beloved The Holiness of God but my father’s novel Thy Brother’s Keeper that awakened in me the hunger to write. Truth certainly moved me, but beauty made my heart sing. To this day praise for a defense of a sound and biblical idea pleases me. Praise for a turn of a phrase, on the other hand, makes me weak in the knees.

When I was in high school I read a dozen books on writing, and the arcane art of getting published. When I was in college I published my first book. But it was not until I received my first letter praising a column I had written in “Tabletalk” magazine that I began to dream with confidence that I could put words together in a way that could serve the kingdom of God. In turn, it was wrestling over every word of every issue of “Tabletalk,” as an editorial associate, that taught me that my deepest love was for language.

The great Scot, Eric Liddell, used to say that when he ran he felt God’s pleasure. I feel the same joy when I am able to turn a phrase, when I am able to take an orthodox notion and turn it just a few degrees and release before the reader’s eye the glory of the gospel. I don’t, of course, know what God has in store for me in my remaining years. I do, however, know that He has been pleased to allow me to play in His garden of language, even as He has allowed me to explore, through the glory of language, His glory. I am content to stay in that garden the rest of my earthly journey. For there is no greater ultimate glory than His own, and no greater earthly glory than to reveal His glory through the power of words.

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Bible in 5, III John; Psalm 13

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It May Not Be About Me

It’s one of my favorite lines, not just because of how funny it is, but how true. “I’ve talked long enough about me… how about you talk about me for a while?” We are all, I suspect, our own favorite subjects. Such is foolish enough, but the sadder thing is that we tend to think we must be the favorite subject of everyone else. We are dressing before going to attend a friend’s retirement ceremony, worrying about whether people will be put off by the small spot on our tie. The solution isn’t to stop worrying about the spot. The solution is to realize that we are not going to be the center of attention at our friend’s event. Our friend’s friends are not coming to the event to evaluate our tie, but to celebrate the life work of the honoree.

We make, often, the same mistake when it comes to the providence of God. “Why,” we ask, “are You doing this to me Lord?” It’s true enough that the sovereign God wastes nothing, and is as efficient as He is sovereign. But might it just be that His principle concern about my hardship is how it will work in the lives of others? Might it just be possible that we are playing a part in someone else’s story? Many years ago in the church where I served we had a “widow” that found herself dependent upon the care of the deacons. The deacons were delighted to serve, but the young lady was uncomfortable, felt awkward, bristled under the burden of her dependence. I get that. Which is why I told her this, “I don’t envy you your calling. It is indeed a hard providence. But I do want you to understand the honor you are being given by our Lord. He said that when we give food and water and clothing to the least of these we are giving the same to him. Jesus is asking you to be Jesus to us, so that we, in serving you as His body, can be Jesus to you.”

We move through our days sinfully looking at ourselves as the star of the story, and all others playing roles of varying lesser importance. The truth is that my friend who just betrayed me is, just like me, being sanctified, being remade into the image of Christ, and the tussle we are engaged in is a part of God’s plan for me, but just as much for him. That annoying person driving slowly in the left hand lane on the highway, believer or not, bears the image of God just as much as I do, and will continue into eternity just like I will. (And likely is annoyed that I am tailgating him.)

All of us together are but players in the one story, with one Star, Jesus of Nazareth. It’s not about me. It’s not about the people I envy who have more lines in the play. It’s not about those who envy me for my time on the stage. It’s about the hero of the story, who lives to glorify the Author and Director of the play. His stage direction is simple- Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself- Philippians 2:3. When we think the story is about us, we hearken back to our natural father, who rebelled against the more humble role he was called to play. We, however, have been adopted, through the work of the Star, as the children of the Author and Director. Let us learn to be humble, and content.

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Abolitionism; Defending Our Homes

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