How can I encourage my pastor?

Pastors are human too. That means, of course, that they sin, but it also means that they have ordinary human needs. While no one joins the ministry in order to receive riches or accolades, honor or power, while shepherds are called to serve others rather than themselves, such doesn’t mean that they are not given to discouragement. Given their effectiveness for the kingdom, we shouldn’t be surprised at the devil’s assaults. Discouragement is one of hs favorite weapons.

Most of us, most of the time, love our pastor, and are grateful for him. Few of us, however, understand that he needs encouragement. What even fewer of us grasp is how we can be an encouragement to him. Here are three simple ideas.

First, pay attention to his labors. Though we do not have a duty to be at the church every time the doors are open, one thing that discourages pastors is our unwillingness to simply avail ourselves of his gifts. When the pastor labors in his study to prepare a Bible study lesson, or writes a blog post, and the sheep under his care pay no attention, it is discouraging. It says to the pastor, “I do not value what you do for me and my family. Your efforts have no effect because I won’t even be bothered to read, or to listen. I will download the sermons of celebrities that don’t know me. I will read the wisdom of those with book contracts.” It’s not that your pastor is jealous of the gifts of others. It is instead that he is jealous for you and your growth in wisdom. A less gifted man who knows and loves you is far more potent in your life than a more gifted man far, far away.

Second, speak well of him to others. When you speak well to the pastor, if he is prone to discouragement, it might not have the impact you wish it to have. Such kind words can easily be written off as kindness rather than gratitude, as flattery rather than sincerity. But if word comes back to him, and it will, that you have spoken well of him, to others in the church, or even to those in your community, he will have to take your good word to heart. It might also encourage those with whom you speak to have a deeper appreciation for your pastor, and that’s usually a good thing.

Of course the one you should be speaking to the most about your pastor is the Great Shepherd of the sheep. Pray with gratitude for the man Christ has given you, and the man will be encouraged.

Finally, pursue godliness. Because he loves you, what your pastor wants more than anything else is for you to grow in grace and wisdom, to become more like Jesus. What is most discouraging for him then isn’t how poorly he may be treated, how badly he may be honored, but how poorly his sheep are doing. He is encouraged most, however, when you are doing well. When he sees your wife’s beaming face, he knows it is because you are seeking to be a godly husband and father, and is encouraged. When he sees you turning the other cheek in your relationship with your pew neighbor, he is encouraged to know that the leaven of the kingdom is spreading among his flock. When he sees you visiting the widow and the orphan, he knows you are practicing true religion, and rejoices.
Don’t, in short, tell your pastor how smart he is, nor how brilliant his sermons are. Don’t tell him how funny he is, nor how dignified. Show him how his labor in showing you Jesus is making you more like Him. That is the desire of his heart, because that is the desire of His heart.

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The Two Shall Become One

Six years ago today Lisa became my bride, and I her husband. For all the cultural confusion about marriage, for all the dishonor we give the institution, treating it as a revolving door, the reality is the reality. Before the God of heaven and earth, as He ordained from before all time, we made our vows, and we were made one flesh. Six years later that is still what we are, one flesh.

It is not, however, just the sexually confused that fail to grasp the astonishing nature of marriage. Hundreds of years ago our forefathers saw marriage as little more than a business venture. For the last few centuries our forefathers have seen marriage as a depository of love and romance. A pox on both their houses. I am all in favor of the family economy. When we married Lisa and I actually included the economic circumstances we brought to our marriage in our wedding vows. We both committed to this economic arrangement, “With all my earthly goods I thee endow.” I’m also a strong proponent of love and romance. Which is why I vowed to love and cherish Lisa.

That said, both views fail to get to the core of what marriage is. Like trinitarian views that zero in on attributes and callings but miss the unity and relationship, too often we miss the earth shattering reality of two becoming one flesh. We miss the covenant of marriage for the trees of the work and love of marriage. God says that in marriage the two become one flesh (Genesis 2:24). Not that the two are very close. Not that they have shared economic interests or that they share their feelings with each other. One flesh.

That means I cannot serve me without serving her. I cannot hate her and love myself. I cannot allow anything to come between us. My loyalty is to us. My calling is to protect and nurture us. My wife, my Eve, is the garden I’m commanded to dress and to keep. And it has been my privilege to do just that. It has been my blessing to have Lisa as bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh. I have, in being one with Lisa become more myself. We have together become more like Jesus, the husband of us all. He is the third cord that binds us together, Him whom I daily thank for blessing me with Lisa. And the Sower leads us…

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Sacred Marriage, One Mind; Jab Lies; Those 70s Cars & More

This week’s Jesus Changes Everything Podcast

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Contending with Fools

We live in an age of spin and propaganda. We no longer weigh careful arguments and reach our conclusions judiciously. Instead, we inhabit what one cultural critic called a “sensate culture.” We do not think, we feel. We do not decide, we choose. We do not deliberate, we do. Our choices are made for us by the master manipulators. They tell us through images, through associations, but never through logic, what toothpaste we will use, what shoes we will wear, and what party we will vote for.

Consider, for a moment, our own self-image. Christians, in the West at least, tend to see themselves in terms of cultural trade-offs. We may not, we reason, be as smart as the unbelievers, but we are nicer. We may not be quite as sophisticated as the unbelieving intellectual crowd, but we are cleaner. We may not read their highbrow authors, attend their ponderous films, or frequent their trendy galleries. But we read nice, clean historical romance novels, watch rapture-fever movies, and have paintings of nice, warm cottages hanging over our mantels.

There is some truth to this self-image. After all, has not the apostle Paul told us, “For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called. But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things that are mighty; and the base things of the world and the things which are despised God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, that no flesh should glory in His presence” (1 Cor. 1:26–29 nkjv). For those of you keeping score, that’s us — we are the foolish, the weak, the ignoble, the despised.

Fools that we are, we sometimes seek to undo this arrangement. We look across the battlefield at the seed of the serpent. We see their sophistication, their wisdom, their nobility, their strength, and we seek to imitate them. We think that in order to win the debate, we need first to win their approval, to demonstrate to those outside the promises of God that we are just as together, just as hip as they are. We take our gnawing hunger for approval and baptize it, turning it into being “all things to all men” (1 Cor. 9:22).

We have need of two things. First, we must jettison this approach to winning the lost. We will never “cool” anyone into the kingdom. The more we pander to them, the more we persuade them that they are what really matters. The more we mimic them, the more they delight to see themselves in our mirror. The more we become like them, well, the more we become like them. We end up, as we seek to shine our own lights, under a bushel. We become savorless salt, good for nothing but being trodden underfoot.

Second, we need to have a better, more biblical understanding of those with whom we are dealing. The image shows us learned men and women, sitting in endowed chairs at prestigious universities. They have letters after their names. We pay tens of thousands of dollars a year to have our children listen to them. They appear on C-Span and PBS. They write for The New York Times Book Review, as well as writing books reviewed therein. They are graduates of elite universities, and now teach at elite universities. And God says that they are fools. The new atheists are, in the end, not appreciably different from the old ones, of whom God said, “The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God’” (Ps. 14:1). Their image is power and glamour. The reality is that they are mouth-breathing, knuckle-dragging rubes. We, when we enter into the arena of truth, are not facing Goliath. We are not coming face to face with the chariots of Pharaoh. Instead we do battle with frightened and foolish little children who already know what we are seeking to prove.

As Christians called to seek first the kingdom of God — to make known the glory, the power, and the beauty of the reign of Jesus Christ over all things — we must do far less than trying to fit their image of what it means to be urbane, but we must do far more than merely believing in God. Instead, we are called to believe God. He is the one who says they are fools. He is the one who says that in Christ we are more than conquerors (Rom. 8:37). Our calling is to be as unmoved by their image as we are by their “arguments.” Both are mere folly.

Jesus told us to set our worries aside. Wherever we find ourselves, whether we are walking through the valley of the shadow of death or engaged in the battle of ideas on Mars Hill, we ought have no fear. He, after all, is with us, even unto the end of the age. Our calling is not to seek grand victories. He will not, after all, share His glory with another. Our calling is fundamentally simple — to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness. Then, and only then, will all these things be added unto us. May God grant wisdom to His fools, that by them more fools might be brought into His kingdom.

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If Anyone Lacks Wisdom…

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Be Still

The children of God are rather different from the children of men. We have been reborn by a sovereign God. They have not. We have been redeemed by a sovereign God. They have not. We are being remade by a sovereign God. They are not. Despite these things that distinguish us, that set us apart there are yet ways where we are very much like those outside the kingdom. We, both inside and outside the kingdom, have drunk deeply of the modernist conceit that we are defined by what we know. Thus we think the difference between us and them, between sheep and goats, is a matter of knowledge. We are those who have been blessed to have the truth revealed to us. Once those outside the kingdom have the truth revealed them, we seem to think, they will become just like us.

Jesus, of course, dispelled this nonsense. Indeed His harshest words while ministering on the earth were directed at the scribes and Pharisees, the most widely read, the most highly educated, the most in the know. What separates us in the end isn’t that we know that Jesus is the Son of God, the promised Messiah. What separates us isn’t that we know He suffered the wrath of the Father in our place on the cross. What separates us isn’t that we know that the third day He rose again. Remember that the devil himself believes all those things. The difference is that we not only know these truths but trust in them, cling to them, depend upon them.

Now inside the kingdom of God, among His children, there are still differences. We who are Reformed, or Calvinists, who believe in the doctrines of grace, know that we have been reborn from above. Others affirm that they were reborn from within. We know that we have been sovereignly redeemed. Others affirm that they cooperate with God in their salvation. We know that we are being sovereignly sanctified. Others affirm that they determine themselves how, and even if they will grow in grace. But once again, we who are Reformed make the mistake in thinking that it is what we think that separates us from our less than Reformed brothers. We think it is because we know God is sovereign, and that if they will but be so informed, they will join us.

This too is nonsense. Our calling, in the end, isn’t merely to affirm that God is sovereign, but to rest in that sovereignty, to trust in it, to cling to it. Which means, in turn, that we ought not to worry. God’s wisdom literature draws for us a rather stark contrast between how those within and those without deal with fear. Solomon tells us “The wicked flee when no one pursues, but the righteous are bold as a lion.” The difference is neither, “The wicked don’t know there’s nothing to be afraid of, but the righteous have been informed.” Neither is it, “The wicked are well aware of the dangers and are afraid, but the righteous overcome those fears.” The distinction runs on two different tracks. The wicked have fear when they need not. The righteous have courage even in the face of danger. A leaf rustles, and those outside quake. Whereas the godly man finds himself in the valley of the shadow of death, and he fears no evil. What sets us apart from them is that they are craven cowards, while we are, at least we’re supposed to be, courageous heroes. The difference is found in actually believing in, trusting in, resting in the sovereignty of God.

How, though, can we move from simply affirming the sovereignty of God to resting in it? We will rest in His sovereignty when we remember not just that He is almighty, but that He who is almighty loves us with an everlasting love. It is because He is with us in that valley of death that we do not fear. It is because He has prepared a table for us in the presence of our enemies that we can be assured that goodness and mercy will follow us all the days of our lives. Our fears in the end are grounded in either a failure to believe in His strength, or a failure to believe His gospel. The solution is to believe both.

If our consuming zeal is to see the kingdom come in its fullness, if we are about the business of seeking first His kingdom, and if we know that He will indeed bring all things under subjection, what could we possibly have to fear, save the King Himself? This, in the end, is why we are more than conquerors, why we not only have the courage of a lion, but have the courage of the Lion of the tribe of Judah. Should we not be of good cheer, knowing that He has already overcome the world? And He has made us His own. “Come, behold the works of the Lord, how He has brought desolations on the earth, He makes wars cease to the end of the earth’ He breaks the bow and shatters the spear; He burns chariots with fire. Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth. The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress” (Psalm 46:8-11).

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What Bible translations do you recommend?

It is a good thing that so many Christians love the Bible. It may not be such a good thing that Christians love their Bibles. That is, debating the relative merits of this translation over that can get rather emotional, and swiftly. Please take what follows in the spirit it is intended. I am simply making some broad suggestions, not saying your conversion was false because it all started when you read Good News for Modern Man or some such thing. I’m simply trying to give guidelines, not arguing that we measure one another’s piety by which Bible we use.

There are at least five distinct issues related to Bible translations. The one that receives the most press is the source manuscripts. There are two competing sets of manuscript families, an older set, and a larger set. As you might guess, those who prefer the older set argue that it must be more true to the original because it is older, whereas the other group argues that the larger set must be more faithful because it is larger. In my estimation this argument is grossly overblown, as are the distinctions between the two text families. It takes a brain much larger than mine to figure out which is better.

The biggest issue for me is the translation philosophy. There is a continuum among philosophies with a literal, word by word translation on one end, and a Bible paraphrase on the other end. I am rather strongly on the side of the former and opposed to the latter. I understand the motives that bring us The Message, or the Ebonics Bible. But it’s a bad idea. The further you move away from word for word translation, the more room you leave for interpretation, rather than translation.

The third issue is beauty. Which translation in its form best befits its content? This too is one of the weaknesses of most paraphrases. Ironically, in trying to make the Bible more readable they make it instead more pedestrian. This is likewise a weakness that shows up the more we push toward word for word equivalency. The most “faithful” translation often will clank, artistically speaking.

The fourth issue is one of authority. The hard reality is that in our day, Bible translations are important to the long-term financial health of publishing companies. Some companies, it seems, in defense of their bottom lines, have added to the already crowded alphabet soup of Bible translations. Should the Bible be in the hands of publically traded companies? How about parachurch organizations? Some have argued that the church alone has the authority to translate the Bible.

The fifth issue is history. That is, which Bible translation fits best into the life of the church over the centuries? Is it not jarring to read, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want?” I believe there is great value in having a translation that has inspired our hymnody. I believe there is a profound blessing for me to memorize the same words that my grandparents memorized when they were small.

Different translations might score higher than others in one category above, but lower than others in another. No one Bible gets five stars in every category. That said, it is possible, if not wise, to use different translations for different contexts. For example, the New American Standard alone earns five stars on word for word translation. But it earns no stars for beauty. If I find myself in a situation where I need a level of precision that is high, but too low to go to an inter-linear Bible, I pick up my NASB. Otherwise, it stays on my shelf.

In like manner, the King James Bible scores points on the issue of history, and on beauty. But the anachronisms in the language are a real barrier to me. It tops the list on authority, but even there it is sketchy. An angry, and likely light in his loafers king, it seems to me, shouldn’t have the ability to supplant a perfectly good Bible like the Geneva Bible.

In the end, and on balance, my favorite for most circumstances is the New King James Bible. It scores high on history, without getting me confused. It scores high on beauty, without losing fidelity to the original text. It scores high, though not the highest, on word for word translation, while still communicating the gravity of its subject. Even on the issue of competing text families it does well as it usually includes parenthetically alternate readings in the older texts. The English Standard Version runs a close second for me. Then the Geneva Bible. This is how I approach the question, but it does not, to borrow a phrase, determine the boundaries of my fellowship.

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Voting for Death

It’s a common enough fallacy, tu quoque. It means simply, “You too.” If we are talking about something I’ve done wrong and I point out that you have done the same such has zero bearing on the wrongness of what I’d done. It may take you down a peg or two, but that’s about it. As with so many informal fallacies, social media proves to be fertile soil for such hornswaggle. Every day some conservative points out something terrible the Biden administration is doing and then some liberal throws out some wrongdoing of former President Trump. Little is served by this, except perhaps revealing our priorities.

With mid-term elections less than a month away Christians are once again arguing about whether it is permissible to vote Democratic, and whether the GOP is God’s Only Party. My own view is not as radical as some. I believe a believer can vote for a democrat. That said, I also believe a believer can commit war crimes. Believers are able to perform all sorts of wicked deeds. We are, after all, sinners. But a believer should not vote for any member of a party that is publicly committed to ensuring babies can legally be murdered. To do so is an affront to the God whose image all babies bear.

Not long ago Christians advocating for democrats took this approach- because Roe v. Wade is enshrined law, and the President has little impact on it, we can set that issue aside when deciding for whom we will vote. Today, Roe v. Wade is not enshrined law. Today who we vote for will have a tremendous impact on the lives, or deaths, of millions. So all these misguided Christians are backpedaling, affirming that, of course this election you can’t vote for a democrat. Too many babies’ lives are at stake.

Except no one is backpedaling. Instead, they are doubling down, and resting their arguments on tu quoque. It’s fine to vote for the death party because supposedly the other party is the insurrection party. It’s fine to vote for the death party because supposedly the other party is the poor hating party. It’s fine to vote for the death party because the other party is mean. All of which reveals not merely a fallacy but a sick and twisted set of priorities. Christians vote for the death party because they are worldly fools in open insurrection against the Word of God, haters of the poorest of the poor, the unborn, and not merely mean but cruel and sadistic.

It is time for all of us to repent. Most of us have voted for candidates who promise to protect the “right” of some mothers to kill some babies. Not a one of us has done what we ought to protect the babies. Not a one of us have valued them as our heavenly Father values them. The universality of our guilt, however, doesn’t erase it. The point isn’t, “We’re all guilty, so it’s no big deal.” Rather the point is, “We’re all guilty, and that’s a big deal.” The solution, according to God’s Word, is repentance. He promises that if we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Friends, do not argue with those who argue voting for the death party is morally acceptable. Simply call them to repent. Lest you become fools like them.

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Pulling Up Roots

I confess I was surprised to find it there, one of those evangelical catch phrases that unbelievers don’t understand. I’d heard people confess to the problem, warn about its destructive nature, accuse others of being in its grip- the root of bitterness. And there it was, right in Hebrews 12. I’d read Hebrews many times before, even preached from it multiple times. Somehow I missed this. Had you asked me I would have guessed either the expression came from some Christian counselor or Puritan, or that if it was in the Bible, it would be found in Proverbs.

Hebrews, of course, is written to encourage believing Jews not to turn their back on Jesus to go back to the Egypt of Judaism. Hebrews 12 begins with a “therefore,” followed by instructions for godliness before ending on the glory of our worship. It seems strange to me right in the middle of this we find the warning about roots of bitterness. Until we realize their true nature.

It is perfectly fitting that we would recognize a distinction between horizontal relationships and vertical. Joseph grasped this when he told his fearful brothers regarding their sin against him, “you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good” (Genesis 50:20). In our horizontal relationships we have sinners interacting with sinners. We have wrongdoers doing wrong to wrongdoers who do wrong back. Bitterness in that context half-way makes sense. We are genuinely wronged. But we all genuinely do wrong. In our vertical relationship, however, we are sinners interacting with a holy God. He never does wrong. We never do right. Bitterness in this context half-way makes sense. That is, were God to be bitter toward us.

This distinction between the horizontal and the vertical must never lose sight of the connection between the two. Because God is sovereign, everything we experience from other sinners on the horizontal plane is something He has ordained on the vertical plane. When we forget we find ourselves planting bitter seeds against our Father who loves us. Joseph was able to forgive the genuine wrong of his brothers because of his genuine trust in his Father in heaven.

The recipients of the letter of Hebrews were wrongly rejected by their families and their communities. They were excluded from the temple, banished from their synagogues, shunned by their kin, all for simply recognizing that Jesus was the long awaited Messiah. Who wouldn’t be tempted toward bitterness against those who were doing the rejecting? The danger, however, was that such bitterness would, in the mind of the wronged, implicate the Almighty. How could God allow all this hardship to befall those who are seeking to follow Jesus?

Because that’s what it means to follow Jesus. When we see the faith as a ticket to the good life, when we see our embracing of Christ as a sacrifice we make for His sake, bitterness lurks at the door. When, however, we remember what is our just due, when we remember our calling to pick up our cross daily and die to self, we not only escape the dangerous folly of being bitter toward God but escape the corrosive folly of being bitter toward others. The Hebrews, and we, Gentile children of Abraham, would be wise to remember what we are in ourselves, who we are in Christ, and how much our heavenly Father loves us.

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Sacred Marriage, Hindered Prayers; Jesus’ Temptation & More

This week’s Jesus Changes Everything Podcast

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